4 Ways To Handle Getting Ghosted After A Job Interview
Jul 16, 2025
Great interview…
...then radio silence.
It stings π
And it happens way too often.
Here are 4 things to do when you get ghosted after an interview: π
π€ 1. Co-create the next step before you leave
Ghosting thrives in vagueness
End every interview by asking:
“What can we agree on for next steps?”
ποΈ When will we reconnect?
π« How will it happen?
π What if things don’t go as planned?
Set a clear follow-up timeline — together.
Not a guess. Not a hope.
An actual agreement β
π¬ 2. Follow up — confidently
If the agreed time passes and there’s silence?
Follow up.
“We had an agreement to reconnect by [time] — just wanted to make sure I haven’t missed anything. Let me know.”
Simple. Direct. Professional πΌ
No pressure. No chasing.
Just honoring the commitment π
3. Don’t make their silence your story
Most ghosting isn’t about you π
It’s discomfort on their end.
Maybe they picked someone else π€·
Maybe the role got paused βΈοΈ
Maybe they feel awkward saying no π¬
That silence?
It’s a reflection of them, not a verdict on you.
π 4. Apply again
Seriously.
See another role at that org?
π― Go for it.
Most people would vanish.
You won’t πͺ
Reapplying sends a powerful signal:
You’re not here to play petty games πΉοΈ
You’re here to serve π€
That level of maturity stands out π
TL;DR
Getting ghosted feels awful π
It doesn’t define you.
And it’s not the end π€οΈ
Co-create clarity.
Stay visible π
Stay ready π₯
π Let's get your career stuff handled, find time to talk here. π²