Hurt People

Your boss is a JERK 😤

Impossible colleague. 🙄

Working with real live actual humans can sometimes be a lot. 😩

Sometimes they…
😡 Get angry with you
👉 Blame you
🙃 Take you for granted
💥 Attack you

It doesn’t make a lot of sense. 🤷‍♂️

Except it does. 🤔

Any human that has ever walked the earth knows what it’s like to get hurt. 💔

We can get hurt in all sorts of ways: spiritually 🙏, emotionally 😢, physically 🩹, psychologically 🧠…

For better or worse, especially when we get hurt a lot - one reaction is to hurt others. The hope is that if we hurt others first, we’ll get hurt less.

In caveman times? Sure - maybe that worked sometimes. 🪓🐒

Almost always today - it’s old wiring. It doesn’t work that way anymore. 🛑

And yet we still have the wiring. ⚙️

The opportunity: realize the next time somebody lashes out at you, they’re just injured. 🩹💔

It might be an injury they don’t even realize they have. 🤷

It might be an injury from a long time ago. ⏳

They’re not bad, they’re just hurt. 😔

While it may not be your job to heal them.

When you want to, you can offer compassion.

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