It Looked Like Pac-Man Swallowed A Filing Cabinet
May 08, 2025
Big. Fat. Rolodex.
Ever have one?
I did.
It was green 💚.
It looked like Pac-Man 🟡 swallowed a filing cabinet 🗄️.
It lived on my desk like a boss 💼.
And it was a boss — because relationships are power ⚡.
They were then.
They are now.
Don’t know what a Rolodex is?
It was a spinning box 🔄 full of handwritten contacts ✍️.
Old-school LinkedIn 💼, with more ink and a lot more flipping.
Today, your Rolodex lives in your phone 📱.
In Gmail 📧.
In LinkedIn 🌐.
Still powerful. Still packed with possibility ✨.
Here’s where job seekers mess this up —
Before asking someone for help, we pre-reject them 🙅♂️.
We decide: “They probably don’t know anyone who can help.”
So we don’t ask.
And we lose 🎭.
Reality check 🔍:
You have no clue who other people know 🤷.
None.
People you see every day might be one intro away from your next job 🧩.
Your neighbor 🏡.
Your cousin’s college roommate 🎓.
Even your dentist 🦷.
Don’t guess what’s in someone else’s network 🌐.
Don’t assume their contacts — or their willingness to help 🙇.
Ask 🙋.
Let them decide who they know.
Oh — and speaking of connections...
Are we?
If not, let’s fix that → 🤝 Eric Woodard
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